How to deal with negative peoples

Become observer

Treat others and yourself as patients with different sets of diseases. Don't judge others

Do not expect everyone to be perfect. Do not think you are perfect.

25 by 75 principle

Spend time with spiritual and talented people. 90% of our time is spent with screens. Give time to positive books and positive peoples as well as with positive videos

Allocate time

Decide the time to spend with negative people on the basis of your tolerable capacity.

Detachment

Be emotionally detached and not to involved with negativity

Take expert help

Don’t decide things by yourself. Seek expert help for yourself as well as for others

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Uddhav’s Bitter Questions to Krishna

Source: Pexels Uddhav was in the service of Shri Krishna as a charioteer since childhood, but he neither expressed any desire nor asked anything from Shri Krishna. When Krishna completed his avatar era and was ready to go to Gaulok, he called Uddhav to himself and said: Dear Uddhav, many people have received something from me in this 'Avatar period', but you never asked for anything! Now ask for something, I want to give something to you Uddhav did not ask for anything even after this. He only wanted to clear his doubts which were arising in his mind by seeing Krishna's teachings and his gratitude. This way it became a session which not only cleared the doubt’s of Uddhav but also it’s very helpful to clear all common doubts in our mind. Uddhav’s question: I could not understand many things in the events of Mahabharata! Your 'teachings' remained different, while 'personal life' looked somewhat different! Will you explain the reason to pacify my knowledge...

Education System of India

India produces more engineers than the total population of Switzerland. Still, Switzerland is number one in research and innovation. After independence, the Republic of India has produced zero noble laureates in science but within the same time period, the USA has produced noble laureates who are 100 plus in number. The new Annual Employability Survey 2019 report by Aspiring Minds reveals that 80% of Indian engineers are not fit for any job in the knowledge economy and only 2.5% of them possess tech skills in Artificial Intelligence (AI) that industry requires. Sundar Pichai, Satya Nadella and many other popular people have done their education outside India. To find the root cause and problems hidden in our education system, we have to go back to the time when India was ruled by Britishers. In that time East India Company had two major challenges to rule India. First was the need for communication with Indians in their British English language and second, was the need for workers in I...

The Debate of Astawakra with Acharya bandhi

Image Source: Google The discussions within this debate are very helpful to know about knowledge and lack of knowledge. It may change the way with which we usually think. Acharya Bandhi’s question- What is Prapancha or Delusion? Ashtavakra’s answer - Whatever is visible and visible things are a delusion. Ashtavakra’s question - What is it meant by visible? Acharya Bandhi’s answer - That is visible which is the subject of the mind and senses, which I know by myself only that is visible, Acharya Bandhi’s question - Who knows him who has the vision or sight? Who sees the self? Ashtavakra’s answer - To see that self, no help is needed, just as a lamp is not needed to see the sunlight. Ashtavakra’s question - Where from and how did this world come? Acharya Bandhi’s answer - This world came from him only. Acharya Bandhi’s question - Who is this creator of this world? Ashtavakra’s answer - He is the Brahma, he is the same God, he creates this world with his illusion, the same creat...

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